From Mangwon Market to Hongdae, the city revealed itself in ways we never expected.
After choosing Option B and placing our trust in the Goodmate Travel team, the day we had been anticipating finally arrived.
We knew the itinerary would take us through neighborhoods Sylvia and I had never fully explored, but we still weren’t sure what experiencing “a local’s Seoul” would actually feel like.
We were about to find out.
Our adventure officially began on a beautiful September afternoon at Mangwon Station.
As is tradition whenever three grown women find themselves with free time in Korea, we arrived early and immediately wandered into the nearest Olive Young.
For those unfamiliar, Olive Young is Korea’s most dangerous tourist attraction.
Not because it’s scary.
Because it’s nearly impossible to leave empty-handed.
“You need this serum.”
“You definitely need this face mask.”
“Your luggage can fit one more moisturizer.”
Fortunately, I showed remarkable self-restraint and bought absolutely nothing. Mostly because I didn’t want to figure out how to fit it into my suitcase later. But don’t worry, fellow, beauty fans. I made a stop at the Olive Young near my Airbnb the next day.
Tasha’s Favorite Olive Young Shopping Score – Eye Cream
After escaping with our wallets mostly intact, Sylvia, Nicole, and I grabbed drinks and settled into a nearby McDonald’s to wait for our guide.
The day before, Yong had already reached out through WhatsApp with a weather update, a reminder that we would be doing plenty of walking, and another copy of our itinerary. It was a small gesture, but one we appreciated. September weather in Seoul can be unpredictable, and the extra preparation helped us feel ready for the day.
Then Yong arrived.
And somehow, he managed to make an entrance worthy of a K-drama.
He walked through the door with a bright smile just as a beam of sunlight streamed through the window onto him. The moment looked so cinematic that the three of us later joked that he must have rehearsed it.
“Main character energy” became the unofficial theme of the day.
First photo of Yong
One thing I’d never told many people is that despite having lived in Korea and visited several times afterward, I’d never truly experienced a traditional market.
Part of it was language insecurity.
My Korean is enough to survive, order food, ask for directions, and somehow accidentally buy things I didn’t intend to buy.
But traditional markets always felt different.
They felt local.
Authentic.
Real.
These weren’t spaces created for tourists to observe culture behind glass. These were living spaces where people shopped, worked, argued over prices, laughed with neighbors, and carried on traditions that connected generations.
Because of that, I always felt that if I were going to experience a traditional market, I wanted to do it with someone local rather than on my own. These markets aren’t attractions created for visitors. They’re part of people’s everyday lives. Experiencing one alongside a local felt more like being welcomed into someone’s world than wandering in as an outsider. Korea is their home, after all, and I wanted to appreciate that space respectfully rather than treat it like another tourist stop.
So when Yong led us into Mangwon Market, I was excited and nervous all at once.
[PHOTO: Entrance to Mangwon Market]
If Yong learned anything about us within the first fifteen minutes, it was probably this: We ask a lot of questions.
A lot.
A truly unreasonable amount.
Questions about food.
Questions about neighborhoods.
Questions about history.
Questions about signs.
Questions about things we probably could have Googled.
Questions about things that had absolutely nothing to do with anything.
Yong answered every one of them patiently. He pointed out details we would have missed, explained local foods, helped translate conversations with vendors, and encouraged us to try speaking Korean ourselves.
Even though I can manage basic interactions, I often get nervous speaking Korean with native speakers. Yong wasn’t having any of that.
He taught us a few simple phrases, coached our pronunciation, and gently pushed us to interact with vendors ourselves. And somehow, we did. Not perfectly. Not gracefully. But successfully.
By the end, all three of us felt ridiculously proud of ourselves.
After exploring the market, we picked up enough food to feed what was probably an entire soccer team.
There was tteokbokki.
There was sundae.
There were pancakes.
There were dumplings.
There were snacks we recognized.
There were snacks we didn’t recognize.
There was absolutely no self-control involved.
Naturally, we bought all of it.
[PHOTO: Market food haul]
Yong then led us to Mangwon Hangang Park, where he surprised us with a picnic mat he’d brought for the group. It sounds simple, but it was one of those small touches that completely changed the experience.
Instead of feeling like tourists passing through, we felt like locals spending an afternoon with friends.
The park was full of couples, families, students, and groups of friends enjoying the beautiful weather along the Han River. Nicole and Yong made a quick run to a nearby convenience store for drinks while Sylvia and I guarded what was rapidly becoming a mountain of food.
When everyone returned, we settled in and spent the next couple of hours talking about Korea, life, family, music, history, and absolutely everything in between.
First group photo with Yong
One of the most unexpected parts of the day was discovering just how much we had in common with Yong.
As international fans, Sylvia and I often joke about being veterans of K-pop by. We remember first-generation and second-generation artists.
The soundtrack of our conversation quickly became names like g.o.d., TVXQ, SHINHWA, Big Bang, and Epik High.
The more we talked, the less the day felt like a tour.
The truth is, it felt like spending time with a friend who happened to know Seoul better than we did.
And that was exactly what we’d hoped for when booking through Good Mates.
Noticed the lack of pictures? That is simply because Young kept us completely captivated by the activities surround us. We forgot to take pictures, but the memories are permanently etched into our hearts.
Eventually, we made our way to Haneul Park.
The views were stunning. The weather could not have been more perfect. The breeze was cool without being cold, and the sky stretched endlessly above Seoul.
Then Yong told us the history of the hill we were standing on. What looked like a beautiful natural landscape was actually the result of an ambitious environmental restoration project. What had once been a landfill was eventually transformed into the scenic park enjoyed by visitors today.
I won’t attempt to retell the entire story because I’d almost certainly get some details wrong, but I strongly encourage readers to look it up for themselves.
Standing there while learning that history made the moment even more meaningful. The park wasn’t just beautiful. It represented resilience, innovation, and a commitment to improving the environment.
Haneul Park panorama and sunset overlooking Seoul
As we waited for sunset, Yong surprised us again. Out came the games: jegichagi, or Korean shuttlecock kicking, and gonggi, often described as Korean jacks.
If you’ve watched Korean variety shows such as 2 Days 1 Night, you’ve probably seen celebrities confidently play these games.
Let me assure you: We are not celebrities. And we are definitely not confident.
Our jegichagi performance can only be described as a public safety concern.
Meanwhile, I entered the gonggi challenge with the misplaced confidence of someone who had dominated American jacks as a child. Korean gonggi humbled me immediately.
It was embarrassing. It was chaotic. And it was absolutely hilarious. That only made the experience even better.
The three of us laughed so hard that by the time sunset arrived, our faces hurt.
Relaxing after playing gonggi and jegichagi
As evening settled over Seoul, we headed to Hongdae.
Surprisingly, Sylvia and I had never actually visited Hongdae before. On previous trips, we’d always skipped it because we assumed it catered primarily to a much younger crowd. In fact, when planning the tour, I mentioned that concern to the Good Mates team. They assured me that Hongdae had much more to offer than student nightlife and encouraged us to keep it on the itinerary.
Looking back, I’m so glad we listened.
The neighborhood was bursting with creativity and energy. Street performers, independent shops, art, music, cafés, and people from all walks of life filled the streets. It was youthful, certainly, but it was also welcoming, vibrant, and endlessly entertaining to explore.
Instead of feeling out of place, we found ourselves wishing we’d given Hongdae a chance years ago.
The final planned stop of the evening was Late Check-Out Wine Bar, a charming little spot tucked away in Hongdae that immediately felt like the perfect place to celebrate Nicole’s birthday.
The moment we stepped inside, we knew Yong had chosen well.
Late Check-Out Wine Bar managed to feel both cozy and elegant. The atmosphere was warm, intimate, and inviting without ever feeling pretentious. It was exactly the sort of place where you want to linger over good conversation long after the last sip of wine.
For three women in their forties looking for a memorable night out in Seoul, it couldn’t have been a better fit. In fact, it became one of our favorite discoveries of the entire trip.
The food was excellent, the wine selection was fantastic, and one of the most charming touches was getting to decorate our own wine glasses. It transformed what could have been a simple dinner into a truly memorable birthday celebration.
More importantly, it gave us a chance to slow down. After a day filled with exploring, learning, laughing, and walking, we were able to sit together, raise a glass to Nicole, and appreciate how special the day had become.
Late Check-Out Wine Bar, decorated glasses, birthday toast, and food
Watching Nicole smile throughout the evening made all the planning worth it.
This wasn’t just her first trip to Korea.
It was her birthday.
And somehow, everything had come together perfectly.
More importantly, the day had delivered exactly what Sylvia and I had hoped to find when we chose Option B. We hadn’t simply moved from one stop to another. With every neighborhood, conversation, meal, and unexpected lesson, another side of Seoul had opened up to us.
Mangwon introduced us to the warmth and rhythm of a traditional neighborhood market. The Han River gave us space to slow down and connect. Haneul Park added history, laughter, and a sunset we wouldn’t soon forget. Hongdae reminded us not to let assumptions keep us from discovering something new.
By the time we raised our glasses at Late Check-Out Wine Bar, the day no longer felt like a tour. It felt like spending time with a friend who genuinely wanted us to experience his city.
It would have been the perfect ending.
Or so we thought.
Because the itinerary may have been complete, but Yong still had one more surprise waiting for us.
Just when we thought the day was over, a casual comment during dinner led to an unexpected late-night adventure and one final example of how far Yong was willing to go beyond the planned tour.
Guided Revelation: A Local’s Seoul Beyond the Itinerary (Part 3)
When the itinerary ended, Seoul still had a few more surprises to share.
—- CoolHappyTash
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